So I’m out taking a evening walk and my negative self talk says:
“What a loser. No one could love you. Here you are out here alone again. You’re so miserable doing all this by yourself. You’ll always be alone. You’re fat. You’re old. You’re gross. You’re ugly. Give up.”
I was smiling while watching my mind do all this and decided to blog it. Weird what the mind says sometimes. Glad I know it’s not me. I just laughed at my mind and went on with my walk.
Mindfulness isn’t something you do. It is something you are.
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Jun 25, 2016 @ 21:21:05
You’re none of those things. Not alone either, just a different kind of together.
Jun 25, 2016 @ 21:39:29
Thank you.
That was just my mind. I know I am not my mind and I don’t let its negative comments bother me. I tell it to go on to something else. I don’t have time for that.
Jun 25, 2016 @ 21:37:19
I don’t know about being all….
I do know what a mind will say
When it not being attended to
Cleaned every once in a while
Jun 25, 2016 @ 21:40:47
It does require some guidance or it can run off.
Jun 25, 2016 @ 23:13:52
I’m glad you knew it isn’t you! Some of that can be changed if you want to — the rest, well ~ ~ As to alone again, you’re doing what you really wanted to do — maybe it’s time to go farther afield and do some real exploring to keep that silly mind busy!
Jun 26, 2016 @ 06:17:38
Going further afield is a great idea.
Jun 26, 2016 @ 17:31:31
I completely understand that entire conversation your mind had…I have had that same one. Sending you love and hugs….
Jun 26, 2016 @ 18:59:14
I’ve practiced mindfulness and meditated for many year. That helps me realize that thoughts are transient unless I latch on to them. If let them pass, or purposefully think of something else, the mind moves on. It’s a restless organ. I’m not my mind.
Jun 27, 2016 @ 04:21:55
I have done the same….amazing what happens when we learn to change our thoughts….Hmm
Jun 27, 2016 @ 06:40:31
It’s not easy and I’m not always good at it. But when it works, it’s great. lol
Jun 27, 2016 @ 10:11:23
I agree. It does take practice…
Jun 26, 2016 @ 20:38:41
I am just glad you were mindful enough to know the difference. I sometimes feel like that, and go along with it. I feel so down, useless, stupid… the works.
Jun 27, 2016 @ 18:38:21
Sometimes it wins. But not as much as it once did. I’m seeing I am not my mind.
Jun 26, 2016 @ 23:04:34
Hey, Ralph’s mind: Sheddap! I’ve been there, and usually a good sleep and/or a change of pace will quiet the old chatterbox down.
Jun 27, 2016 @ 18:40:25
It just needs a new direction. 😃
Dec 06, 2016 @ 17:25:29
Thank you for the most wonderful card today…I love it!!! Hugs and love to you. Hope all is well…and Merry Christmas!
Dec 07, 2016 @ 01:46:25
You’re welcome. I’m glad you got a kick out of it. 👍💛
Dec 19, 2016 @ 18:59:21
I received another beautiful card from you today…you are such a blessing to my soul…hugs. Safe travels my friend!
Dec 20, 2016 @ 08:12:09
hugs